Your feelings are valid and justified, @Girlindoubt. I COMPLETELY agree with all the other wise and wonderful posters. I think he's being disrespectful to you at the very least. I think you should bring this up to him and have a REALLY serious talk to Him. I'd suggest to talk to him about ALL of this and see how it goes from there. Hopefully he will understand and try to make amends. In any case, yes, you most likely need to reconsider your relationship with Him. If he's willing to lie to you about this, who knows what else he's willing to lie about? I'd also consider Couple Counselling to work on this but it seems like he's the one who may need it more than you. Still, propose this to Him. I am so sorry for what is happening and I do agree that it is REALLY concerning that he had no interest in seeing his Child for so many years - that's another thing to talk about in my opinion, although I guess everyone is different, but it still seems weird to me that he didn't even try to see her. I hope things will sort themselves out for you and improve REALLY soon! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Girlindoubt, your Family, your Friends, your Husband, his Ex, his Daughter, your Relatives, his Relatives, ALL of His Loved Ones and ALL of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!