I'm sorry too, you must feel heartbroken. It would be painful enough just dealing with the changes in your T's life. My own T getting married just in itself sent me into a tailspin. But for your T to promise contact and then not do it is beyond awful. I hope she will remember and text you soon, but I'm sure that won't take the hurt away. I don't know what else to say, but I'm sorry you're going through this.