Shouting at you because you made a mistake is absolutely unacceptable, @poshgirl. She should apologize for that. There's nothing wrong with helping other people but you can only do what you can. I feel like it'd be best to be honest with her and tell her that you're not feeling like you're being treated fairly by her. That is just my opinion of course. In any case, I do not think you're doing anything wrong by backing off a little. Hopefully she will understand what you mean. I'd still encourage open communication if that's an option though. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @poshgirl, your Family, your Friends, your Neighbour and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!