She is not a first-time parent, she has a 10-year-old from a previous marriage. And her wife physically had the baby, not her. I'm not saying she isn't just as exhausted, but I would assume she would have more flexibility in being in touch with me, not being the one who had given birth. I know I'm over simplifying it and it's probably more chaotic than I'm imagining. I'm just being selfish in wanting her attention. But I can't help it. And it makes me hurt.