Thank you @Purple,Violet,Blue!

It's SO very hard to shift my whole entire mentality like that. I'm trying but it's undoing a lifetime of faulty thinking. I know in my logical mind that it's warped thinking.... I mean, our whole society is warped by thinking and throwing in our faces how women must be thin in order to be beautiful. It's not right, it's not fair. We then develop eating disorders partially as a result of our culture?? And because of other factors? Probably abuse of some sort? It makes me so angry..... sorry, I am now ranting and am going off in a tangent.

It's just hard.