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Old Feb 14, 2020, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by fern46 View Post
I don't enjoy it when my opinions hurt others. I offer what I believe to be honest feedback that is intended to help. It is often triggering though. I'm trying to decide how to feel about that. I don't want to walk on eggshells, but I don't want to cause pain. I'm the friend that will be honest if you ask me if you butt looks big in those jeans. I don't like ignoring the elephant in the room. I feel that approach serves to foster maladaptive behavior.

The struggle is real. Good topic Fuzzybear.
Thanks fern for your thoughtful response
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