I think I would have done the exact same thing as you did. And Im sorry you were feeling so bad!

My husband has never been one to control what he says either, and I'll tell ya, he hurts my feelings constantly. I guess after five years you would think I would be able to just get a backbone and ignore, but it does hurt to feel unwanted.
I liked the advice of someone else who said....maybe when you two are alone again, just ask why he was so upset and try to talk it out. (If your anything like me, it would be on my mind until I was able to vent it to him, and at leased have some closer!)

I just think men are from a whole different world than we are when it comes to communication and emotions!!!