Hi Tryin --

A quotation on another list (ty Isolated Guy) points out that a failure is an [i]event[i], not a person. Meaning that is a result of some action we have taken -- but it is not the core of one's identity. The famous story of course is Edison and his thousand light bulbs. All those attempts to produce a lightbulb were failures -- except the one that wasn't But Edison himself wasn't a "failure."

I am glad you are here, and I thank you for the many times you been around to offer kind words or a hug. Sometimes life is overwhelming -- hope you feel better tomorrow.