I certainly would never want to be avoidant ''pd''.. I've been judged for it in real life so many times that I hardly even speak of it on here. I think it is probably one of the most misunderstood and certainly one of the least ''studied'' ''pd's''. I'm married to lovely and intelligent Papa bear who I am almost certain is an ''aspie'' - he has very little desire to socialise. So its just the two of us in our cave...he isn't judged constantly by mean strangers (and others) like I am though (irl) I did go through a phase of being ''less avoidant'' which is when I met Papa bear (so maybe the dx is wrong. who knows.) (maybe its ''just'' CPTSD