Honestly ? My local friend due to multiple reasons became a emotional vampire despite my explaining I often have to cancel plans to either my Bipolar /Fibro or PsA just has me unable , but still would message me constantly and if I didn’t respond fast enough. I finally said unless your bleeding to death stop expecting me to respond in 22 seconds

So I have many true friends I have on here, a few other places , we all get it , if I get a PM I do not have to quickly respond, I can take my time responding.

I absolutely will not tolerate anyone demanding my attention unless it’s truly an emergency.

Maybe that makes me a bytch and honestly I don’t feel bad if it fits a situation.