My family gives the idea that I'm childish for not being able to tolerate him. I'm 45 years old! I think through situations like this to the degree that you would not believe. I suppose it's not my problem that they think I'm being childish.
Thanks for your response. I agree that I shouldn't do anything that is destructive to myself.
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Originally Posted by Nola0250
I hate the idea that we have to tolerate unacceptable behavior just be cause they are related to someone. The problem is withhttps://pcforums-liviant.netdna-ssl.com/images/editor/smilie.gif him, not you, but you’re asked to deal with it when he’s the one responsible. You certainly don’t have to. You can have a relationship with your dad that does not include tour uncle. I don’t think you should do anything that is destructive to yourself, whether it makes your dad feel better or not...
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