Toxic peeps that we care for ,, I don't think actually see what they do as far as being an anchor or hill to climb .

They simply believe that they have every right to live their lifes ,, and If WE choose to be apart of it >>> That would be of our own making .

I call them Passive aggresive. ........

Best advice I can give is what I do ... Be it right or wrong .... I Look after ,,,,, and shake my head ALOT !!!