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Originally Posted by SorryShaped
I went through a time when I fantasized constantly about being with other women, when I was married. I learned to use that energy in my monogamous sex life. It did make being with my wife at the time much better, though I never told her I was fantasizing.
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Well, how would that work if I don't want to be thinking of others when I'm ...you know. (I know I can say the words, but I'm a little reserved too). I mean, I actually think things have been getting better in that department, to be frank, but what's lacking is the flirting, the excitement of the like unknown (do they really like me? I think so...this game is fun...sort of stuff). Know what I mean?
So i mean, is it even possible to use that energy without thinking about others and if so, how?