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Old Feb 16, 2020, 06:37 PM
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Originally Posted by yellow_fleurs View Post
That sounds like an uncomfortable situation with that T. I wouldn't like it one bit. I have found trauma informed therapist sometimes specify this one their websites, so it's something you could possibly look into ahead of time, if you are interested in finding a therapist.
yes he really sucked grrrrr

I'm ambivalent about finding a therapist, I've been thinking of it more lately. And I will definitely look for a trauma informed therapist if I do decide to proceed, thanks

I was wondering if your therapist has said how long therapy is likely to last, or is it open ended (feel free to ignore my nosey question).. I did look up a therapist the other day who looked like a possible fit, I'll have to look carefully before I even interview any. I did consult a few counsellors for one session which were ok and then I ran. I can imagine that the T who turned so mean would be likely to take up quite a lot of time … talking about that with a new therapist, since he traumatised me in a not dissimilar way to how the parental units did, it was bad I have a good friend who sometimes sends me helpful links re Narcissistic parents. The t did a ''good'' job of botching any sort of ''reparenting'' therapy he may have been attempting
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