As a parent and someone who used for many many years I'd rather my child be truthful and feel comfortable and strong enough to realize there is an issue theyneed to address to understand the love I have and concern for thier well bieng would superceed any inaccurate notion of how I'll feel, disapponted or otherwise.
I'd rather them show strength than have the soft stuff hit the fan down the line and not have a clue.
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