Marriages have seasons, sometimes there is love sometimes there is indifference, sometimes there's even hate. The type of love we have in the first few years is not sustainable over time and marriages must mature to survive into a comfortable peace, companionship, shared interests, and loyalty. Most people looking for the 'spark' to last feel disappointed. Most who divorce too soon come to regret it. No spark lasts and a marriage counselor may help you both rebuild before it becomes too late.