Thread: Is this a crush
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Old Feb 16, 2020, 09:41 PM
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I really like a coworker. I sincerely do. He is one of a kind, he is very special, sweet and mostly smart. He is one year older than me, but he is so grown up. He makes everything look easy and nothing seems to stop him from what he wants. And he is nice to people.
I think we are very like mindeds, when we disagree is not hard to find common ground. But has I said he is so grown up and so independent. He knows about my psychiatric issues, and he doesnt care, he sees me as a person even so. And he is a great singer (I allways want to end up with a singer, god knows why!). He is on the military, he has a renting business and he is a doctor as I am, and he jugles everything. And he has a prespective on life I never met someone who thought like him, but he has a hard military training.
We have similar views about how the world works and about people. And I can talk to him so freely.

He is complicate a lot and he has a way to make things look easier. I want to date him, dispite everyting (my psychiatric issues)... he has his faults, that I dont mind, and he is so trustworthy.

I never dated, but it feels so diferent from all the boys and men I had a crush on. I feel I can trust him, I can share anything with him and I appreciate so much is personality. He had shown affection towards me, but if he likef me, he would make a move...
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