Not sure what to make out if it. You said you’d not dare just for fun and you’d only date if there are wedding bells in the future. Why is it ok now if he is married to someone else?

I don’t recommend relationship with married men because it could back fire big time. When wife finds out she might: go to your work place, contact your daughter, shame you on social media etc or worse. I highly suggest you don’t do such thing

Dating married people could be dangerous