Thanks for the article, yellow_fleurs. I loved the picture at the top. So funny and cute.

I don't really fit in any one category. With ya -- I've got trust issues too. I've had 2 long term relationships as an adult (25 years and 10, both amicable). Mentioning this as they were/are very different relationships. And my attitudes were very much influenced by the core personality traits of and interactions with each person. It would have been paranoid to not trust one, and very foolish to trust and feel secure with the other. So which style is that, you know? Everything happens in a context. I guess if something is consistent regardless, you'd probably relate to a particular one strongly.

Guess the take-away is -- everything happens in context.