The fact is you liked a person and although she might have said a few very nice things to you she made it clear she was not interested in you, you emailed etc , you pushed and pushed now she does fear you .. if someone were to do the same to you as you did to her you would also feel fear.

Do you have a mother , sister or female friend ?? If so how would you think they would feel being persued when they clearly are NOT interested in someone ??

So you liked her she didn’t return it
, instead of you just moving on .. you obsessed about her now 10 years later, your still questioning why she didn’t like you ...

She didn’t like you simply because she didn’t, she didn’t need a reason she just didn’t. The end.

Now you have wasted 10 years thinking about her, that’s not life , don’t you want more ? A girl who will love you ?

So drag yourself into a Therapists office and tell them this story and they can help you sort out where things went wrong and learn what a proper relationship is.

Or you can continue to question why one girl out of billons of girls on this planet isn’t interested in you and wonder this another 10 years.