Many times. And that is the truth. I have been genuinely there for many who have been in pain, to offer genuine support. Often to my own detriment.... and I am NOT saying that is a ''good'' thing to support others to MY detriment.... but it may show I am not a terrible person. I know my own heart. And I am not implying anyone thinks I am terrible.... it is MY internal snake who calls me out as ''terrible'' for breathing oxygen.

You?

ETA I request that replies are only about online friends or contacts...… since my ''family'' of origin were (and are) grossly unsupportive. hence talk of such is a trigger for me