Yes, he has always had anger/temper issues. Hes a recovering addict, been clean off heroin for over 5 years. The other is my sons twin, so my girl is 3 also. We all get the wrath of it. Speaking to husband, I am always in the wrong and not doing enough. Very untrue, when I give my all to my family... I guess actually speaking never works because its same problems repeating... I am currently a stay at home mom, have been since pregnancy. My husband also likes control.