7 years. being blamed for problems, in a situation where you always are made to be the one causing problems.... I'm quite familiar. you're not married. Get out now. it does NOT get better. This from someone that DID marry her and ended up in a situation of over 20 yrs - same type of thing and it never changed, never got better. Trust me, I am NOT saying it "can't" get better but you cannot change the other person and if you are, of course, doing what you can to improve your own behavior or actions and such.. there isn't much else you can do and after 7 years that's a good gauge for what it will be like for the long term if not, for life.