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Old Feb 19, 2020, 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
There always is a reason, it’s just that they are not saying why. Sometimes it’s something you or someone did that they didn’t like so they decided to cut them off in an ice cold way, rather than communicating and trying to repair the relationship. Sometimes the ghoster may have been a user and didn’t have good intentions for true friendship in the first place. Like when a narcissist doesn’t get their way from someone, dumps them, and goes to find their narcissistic supply elsewhere. A true friend will tell you what you did that upset them and give you a chance to make it up to them. If you are habitually rude or abusive, a friend may just eventually ghost you when all else fails.

There is a new way of people just ghosting each other that really upsets me. I’m older and we had no way of doing this before computers and cell phones. I’ve suffered on the receiving end of this treatment lately and it’s extremely hurtful. Shame on them.
Yeah I agree. There has to be a reason. Either that or the person was pretending to be a friend when in fact they were just a user. I’ve encountered that before. Especially those who are narcissistic. Very ice cold hearted and selfish.
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