Sarah, I know you've been in this position before, and unsuccessfully. I wonder if perhaps now you could try a different reaction to something your counselor says? There's a saying in English, "If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten." Maybe the counselor shouldn't be the one to make changes to fit what you say you require. Maybe you need to change your requirements. Example, push yourself to go deeper. I hope that makes sense.