I appreciate the support from this group. I see him tomorrow, so we’ll see how it goes. I suspect he‘ll be able to think about it in a way that is not black & white because that’s the way he’s always been. I feel mostly ok about how it’ll go, but some of the responses on this thread have got me a teensy bit worried, mostly because it’s not my usual style to upset people, and some have found my words way more upsetting than I thought. There’s another part of me that might feel some relief if he was offended enough to end the relationship.