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Originally Posted by Twinmama831
I read fully what you have said, and maybe I do need *some* harsh words. I called the police for protection...As you posted yourself with links, it is hard for a victim to leave the abuse. I am interested in help unlike you think, I want advice because I dont have a therapist, and want to know the resources god forbid I really need it but I do have family who steps in. I protected my child, and am evaluating where to go from here.
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My dear, what you need to realize and absorb here is that your husband's behavior towards your child is entirely unacceptable. Perhaps you've accepted so far his abusive treatment towards you, or perhaps you've not accepted it and hoped he would change by telling him how you feel and what is wrong with his behaviors.
The fact of the matter is, it's abuse towards you and towards your child. You need to come to a point in your own mind where you say enough is enough and I am not going to allow this any further... not one second longer. He will continue to abuse and your children will suffer the consequences. You need an escape PLAN.... a plan of action so that you and your children are safe from him. Are you ready and willing to do that?