Hey @RosesAreRed487: There isnt anything you can do. what it boils down to is if you are willing to be listening to her talk about him over and over. You are already in too deep/ Personally, I'd not be involved anymore, I would tell her that you dont want to talk about him or hear about him unless it involves her leaving him. Then tell her what the consequences are if she does> ( getting off the phone, not responding to her calls and texts). If you truly want to help her you will force her to deal with him by herself.[/COLOR]