I expect people to be rude and hateful to me in my life..for a multiude of reasons such as I don't have money, because of my political views, because I'm converting to Judasim and the list goes on and on. BUT NEVER EVER did I expect someone to be rude to me because I'm a woman..never!! I stage manage the school plays and I'm involved in the lifting of some really heavy set pieces..I've been doing this for two years or so. Well I and this jerk was lifting an extremly heavy dresser when I asked him if he could but it down for a second so I could rewrap my wrist. So he decided to shout at the top of his lungs "Can I have a man help me with this?" I started seeing red. One of the actors came over and said yeah and I told him to back off and I started lifting the dresser with out telling jerk. Just to make Jerk's night miserable I had him help me lift heavy set pieces all night. At one point he looks at me and says "your really ticking me off woman." I let lose on him and everyone one was staring. I'm shakeing right now I'm so angry..and of course being this angry makes me want to SI. I don't know why I let it get to me so much..I really don't.