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Feb 20, 2020, 01:36 PM
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Desert Kitty hates titles
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: TARDIS
Posts: 12,919
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Originally Posted by lizardlady
As others said, there is no timeline for grief. We each grieve at our own pace. The stages have no order either. My brother was killed 50 years ago. There are still days I miss him. My husband was killed 20 years ago. Driving to work this morning something brought it all back and I was close to tears.
My recommendation is to just be there for your friend.
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Liz, I forgot to say before that I didn't know this about your brother!  I knew about your husband though...except I didn't know the cause.
Yesterday was esp. bad for me. I just realized I'm the only person I know in real life with no family left. Live alone. Can't have a pet. And I can't just get one cause I have a hard enough time just taking care of myself and all of my needs.
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