we are all different, I have never been paticularly interested in women that society considers really pretty. I find most of those to be rather shallow, since many of these women have been able to get what they want in life by simply looking good, they fail to develop themselves on the inside. I prefer someone who wants to love me for the person I am, who will rock my world spirtually, and intellectually as well as just physically. I would also want someone who actual appreciates who I am and things I do for them.

I have known many "trophy wives" and a lot of them are unhappy. Over time they realize they are nothing more than objects to be owned, and not people to be loved. I pity them.

So take heart ladies, there are plenty of men out there who look well below the surface. He may be that kind next door neighbor, who you exchange a few words with, that shy co-worker who obviously worships your every step, the guy that hands that fleeting glance at the neighborhood bar and grill. Sometimes we are just shy, but worth the effort.