What do you want people here to tell you? To go for it? You're not going to get that on here.

Why would you reach out to him? Then you would be starting down the road of the beginnings of an affair.... and starting down the road towards breaking up a marriage. That is not a good thing to do for many reasons.

It's morally wrong number one, and number two, you'd be part of a cheating equation. That's not a good footing upon which to start a new relationship. It's tainted. And he most likely would also cheat on you. Not only that, even more importantly, you're harming another person, the woman who is married to him. Do you not care about other people's feelings? Do you not care about hurting other people? Number three, it's really bad karma. Do you really want to be the reason a marriage breaks up? Do you really want that negativity on your shoulders?

As a married woman myself, if I learned that some woman approached my husband to say she's in love with him, I would locate her, go to her in person, and there would be big trouble. I can't say on here what I would do, but she wouldn't ever want to come near us again, I can tell you that. So be warned.

Many people view a marriage as a sacred union. You would be encroaching upon the sacredness of that union. There's a reason why adultery is said to be a sin.

Just don't. Find someone else to fall in love with. Forget about him.