Hey @Denise70
I am not judging you- but I will be honest. Lets say you tell him this and he agrees to have a relationship with you? #1 if he decides to then you should know that nothing will stop him from deciding to move on to someone else if he is with you.
#2 I find it hard to believe that relationships that start with cheating can work. I dont see how it could being that there is a lie right in the beginning.
#3 are you willing to accept your roll in breaking up a marriage?
#4 How do you know what you feel is love and not infatuation? If you are not in a relationship now what is that love built on?
#5 what situation are you in? Do you mean he is a coworker? Or are you also in a relationship?
I dont think you are a bad person but an affair is a bad choice. Bad choices dont always mean a bad person but we have control over our choices. I dont know how you came to the conclusion that is is love unless you are already having a relationship. "Loving" someone is built on a relationship with them. I do not believe you can be in love with someone having had no relationship with them.
And how do you know he would be receptive to this? Has he told you he would cheat on his wife?
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