What you write of, Ripperjack, is something I can identify with; although in my case it is not linked to the same physical features you describe.

It is unfortunate that people often make snap judgements about others, identifying them as friends or foes based on appearances.

"Snap judgements" often seem to be the default position of people since it is easier than going for deep understanding. Do you think so too?

Sadly I have been the victim of this, although I doubt any malice was intended. I have also made snap judgements about others sometimes.

Sure hope circumstances change the situation for you and for the better!

-- Yaowen