Yes, it's true there are times someone's marriage is not working out. And yet, sometimes a man will say that just to see if he can fool around with someone too. Some men DO cheat on their wives and yet have no intention of leaving their wives, but want to have their cake and eat it too.

Yes, it's very possible to meet a man that is very charismatic and the attraction can be very strong. Truth is, we are designed to have these attractions. And there is a lot more to it than we realize too. It's about faramones and hormones and certain facial bone structures that can be an attraction a woman often is not consciously aware of. Some of that is included in that "feeling of love" too. We are designed this way so we procreate. Birds and the Bees you know?

It's understandable that you have such a strong attraction. However, this man IS married and it's important to respect that. If he is unhappy in his marriage then he needs to divorce his wife, not have an affair. Does he have children too?

If you are attracted to a man that is married and it's really strong like this, the best thing to do is distance. Just because you have a strong attraction, it doesn't mean HE is THE one either. Sometimes the chemistry can be strong and it's hard. Yet, keep in mind our design by nature is to be like this, it's the trick of nature.

If you talked to him, what would you say? If he doesn't care about cheating, you would be opening yourself up for heartache. Then you get hurt and his wife gets hurt, SO NOT WORTH IT. And this guy cheated and hurt two women.

How old are you and how old is this guy? Does he have any children?