He does and i want to make it clear that ibdont want an affair.as a matter of fact ive done my best to avoid him. And yes i know they stay sometimes despite being unhappy. My purpose to reach out is to get answers not hqve an affair.
I have ignored him which is not doing anyone any good. Inc his wife. I know if i my partner had feelings for someone else i would set them free. Let them have happiness life is short. Its only hurting both of them by staying really