Denise, people can be on the rocks in their marriage, they can even develop feelings for someone else, and they can also work it out and remain together. I’ve seen it happen. Do they have children? It’s not good to mix yourself up in a marriage on the rocks. I don’t understand why you’re wanting to tell him how you feel or find out how he feels. It sure seems like you want to break up their marriage.

What do you think will happen if you tell him AND he admits he has feelings for you?? An affair will start while he’s still married!

Your actions would be very selfish if you approach him. Let them determine on their own what they must do without another woman in the picture. And if there’s kids involved?? Just stay away.

Leave them alone. Leave him alone.