“My marriage is on the rocks” is a typical story cheaters give women so they can get laid. Please don’t fall for this.

If a man “pursued” you while married, he isn’t a decent person. You want a relationship with this kind of guy?

If he is a cheater he’ll cheat on you too. He’ll tell women that his relationship is on the rocks so he can get into their pants, all while you are clueless about the whole thing

I understand it might painful for you now to have these desires for him, but imagine how painful it will be when you two get together and one day you’ll find out that he pursues other women or sleeps around. I ensure you it will be much more painful

Please. Plenty of available men out there

And if your goal isn’t an affair then what is it? Ignoring him is just perfectly fine. You aren’t required to interact with anyone for any reason