Oh my goodness. Had this happened to me, I would have been quite traumatized. I still remember when former T told me she was angry with me. It didn't last long, maybe 5 minutes. First I was bewildered as to why she was mad at me and then I was scared. It took away some of the trust I had in her because anger is something I find so terribly difficult to deal with. And when people are angry with me, particularly people I care about and respect, boy, it's all over for me. I'm sorry that you went through this, it sounds rather terrible. I can't believe she swore at you! Hugs if you want them, Kit