Theoretical, no worries about your questions. Thank you for being open to learning more. There have been some comments, not questions, in other threads by several posters I found difficult to deal with. Speaking from my own experience, having someone harang me only beat me down even more.
As for another relationship, no I don't trust myself to recognize the signs even with what I know now. I'm a different person than I was when I met my husband, but she still lives inside me. I'm afraid I could get sucked in again.
Hope, I agree about finances keeping so many people trapped.
Christina, that means a lot coming from you.