@bpcyclist

Your feelings about your looks are overshadowing the issue of your hair. When people are suggesting you have it cut at the salon, they are implying it will look better and more’normal’. This doesn’t mean they think you are ugly. It means they only think you hair looks unusual and not attractive.

My son got comments all the time from people suggesting he cut his hair. It was different, lopsided and bushy. But he liked it and wouldn’t listen to them until he got a corporate job. Then he conformed with his haircut. But he wasn’t ugly. He’s very handsome. Just his hair disturbed people as it was different and they didn’t like it.

If you think cutting your hair won’t help because you are ugly anyway. That is self defeating thinking. If I were you I’d improve my hair. If a six year old tells you, they are honest.

There are plenty of people who don’t have attractive features and are thought of as really sexy. Insert most rock star’s names here!