I don't like going to the gyno either! because I get myself all grilled up and thinking OMG, what if it smells? what if it looks funny?.....Then, my mom told me that the gyno has seen so many different womens privets that your is no different! And to always remember, there has been women that have gone in to a gyno with serious problems down there and your could look fabulous compared to theirs...lol.
So now when I go I don't psych myself out, but remember that I am just there for my yearly check-up and everything is going to be okay! I have never had a bad gyno b4, and I think I just kinda got use to it after my second daughter because I had a complicated pregnancy with her and I always had to go to the gyno. That and after I had my son, I had to go for my 6 month check-up and they did my pap and found out that I had the start of cancer in my uterus. And that it was caught just in time!! After that I found my paps to be very important because if I skipped it, I would be dealing with a bigger issue right now. I say go, it is very important, and you really need to set the scared or annoyed issues aside, and be healthy, that's what is important.