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Originally Posted by Denise70
For u to say that is an insult to me.
I fulky understand couples go thru phases thats why i gave him space. He stays for the finances
But he dont love hef. Let me ask u something. 2ouldnt u want ur partner to love u. I wouldnt be there if mine didnt and yes i was actually dating someone when we met. Ive moved on but marriage is way more complicated to leave i get it so no its not an ego boost for him
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Honestly, you never shared your age, or his until just recently. For all members know this guy could be older and you could be young and naive. THAT has happened, and members have actually shared that in this relationship forum.
And there ARE men out there that use the line about how their marriage is bad, their wife is mean, but they are stuck because of finances. When what they want is to get someone they can have an affair with and fool around. And they can be very convincing too.
Members are concerned you don't get hurt, that's all. OR that you don't engage some man where he leaves because you give him a reason to do so. It's much better if this man resolves his marriage issues first, where it's all HIS decision. And some men never make that break happen too. So it ends up being a waste of time and heartache.