Good grief people
Well I think the OP has been flooded with enough people throwing things at her, yes most everyone is going to talk about Morals and Men lying etc etc.
What I think this OP needs is to be asked how can she find support here
while she’s in a situation like this. Life is not black and white.
So Denise ... is there anything I can do to help ? Feel free to PM me , I’m a good listener