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Your hubby sounds like mine in many ways. I've done basically what you have been doing. In the end, all I could do was accept him the way he is because neither one of them is going to change, Sweety.

You deserve better. I deserve better, but we're commited, we're in love. In the 20 yrs plus that I tried to stop loving my hubby, it didn't work. Acceptance, Hon. Acceptance is the key. It saves you a great portion of all the upset; certainly not all of it, but a big portion.

You're strong enough to take care of yourself. Do that as much as possible. You CAN do this! You may need to allow your hubby to suffer the consequences of his own actions. Maybe it will help, maybe it won't, but you need to do what is best for YOU and your baby girl.

Stay GOLDEN, Sweatheart!