We both have grown children and my children are Christian and his grown children and whole family are atheist, We all ready are married in a since, It just causes arguments all the time, I also know his family really does not like me, I feel it and just know, Its intuition and I know I am right, I dont think that myself and children should shut our mouths because he doesn't want to hear it, I dont preach to him, I dont even go to church myself because I haven't found one for me that I like, I just feel like he is a control freak and down right mean at times