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Old Feb 24, 2020, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Denise70 View Post
You are right it is easier and i dont condone affairs. Ive tried everything and hes still in my heart. With that being said why do the wives stay?

Anyway i have tried everything to get this man 9ut of my heart and mind not going anywhere even with time.
My point is by reaching out is to NOT have an affair but just get clarity and apologize to him. And let him know i care. No expectations. Ive given him space. Ignoring it is not working
If its meant to be everyone involved will be well cared for with no guilt or backlash. If not ill be free in my heart and mind. I can do that without meddling in his marriage
So what do you want to apologize for and what do you seek clarity on?

When you say if it’s meant to be, no one will be hurt, how does this situation play itself out in your mind so that no one is hurt, and without guilt or backlash? How does this situation ideally play itself out in your mind?
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