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Old Feb 24, 2020, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Denise70 View Post
Iapologize for shuttibg down and lashing out
The marriage would disolve naturally without me being in the middle.if it and without anyone leaving for anyone else. And their wounds would be healed during that process That would create an enviroment for us. To create somethibg that does not involve sneaky deceptive behavior vreate bad karma.
If its meant to be
What do you seek clarity on though with him? How he feels about you?

If you truly want the marriage to dissolve on its own without your influence, you would have to separate yourself entirely from the situation and also NOT confess that you’re in love with him. Also understand that the divorce process can take a year or more. To avoid any harm to anyone, you would have to keep your distance for a long time. If he filed papers, that’s one thing. But until then you would have to keep a far distance.
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