True that. I was in the same position recently with a guy who was supposedly so unhappy in his marriage that At the very end, he seemed committed to walking away, said they had seriously talked about divorce and that this would be best for both of them.

He still ended up staying with her.

I got too close, and even in my state of emotional bankruptcy, I was still pretty rocked by it. So when I say all of this, I am fully and unabashedly projecting. This is the same ******** I had to go through about a month ago.

But, you know, lesson learned.