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Originally Posted by BethRags
I entirely agree. No one is responsible for marital problems except the 2 people in the marriage.
Please read my post about the affair I had. I am not always opposed to affairs. I will say, however, that it takes 4 mature adults to handle the situation.
It seems to me that you are defending yourself to everyone who has posted on this thread. Perhaps I am misreading, but I'm just saying that's the feeling I'm picking up.
Maybe you feel that none of us understand your feelings and intentions? I don't. Your initial post sounded like you're interested in a relationship with the man...I'm confused. Is it possible that you're confused yourself? 
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Hi. So yes if its 4 conenting adults thats one thing but not behind the spouses back. Either way i cant share lol. Im not cut out for that lol
With all seriousness. Yes i do have love for him. Thats what makes this hard cause im not affair material. Do i want a relationship. Yes but not one off lies and deception. Thats why im hurting. And no matter what annyone says that love is not going anywhere. Yes i do feel others here arre assuming things and discounting my feelings. I underatand this might hit home with some but keep in mind i want to act with integrity no matter what i do